Cheers loudly and celebrate with you

Acts happy, but quickly change the subject

Downplays your achievement

Ignores it completely

Rarely, only if it’s really important

Occasionally, but she/he tries to be kind

Frequently, but she/he says it’s for your own good

Almost always, and it’s not constructive

She/he listens and offers thoughtful advice

She/he listens but seem distracted

She/he makes it about themselves

She/he dismisses your feelings altogether

Absolutely, she/he respects them without question

Sometimes, but she/he needs reminders

She/he pushes boundaries often

He/she disregards boundaries entirely

Energized and happy

Neutral, it depends on the day

Drained and confused

Exhausted or upset

Yes, sincerely and quickly

Yes, but she/he makes excuses

Rarely, and only after you confront him/her.

Never, she/he acts like it’s your fault